relationship that much maybe it is time to stop the penetration part of sex all together. That will be good practice for him for after the baby comes out. He will have to wait 6-8 weeks postpartum, unless you have stitches then it would be longer.
Good luck- Stella

Dear Stella-

I would like to have meaningful, intimate, powerful sex full of intention and eye to eye contact with candles and foreplay, wild yet passionate. My man seems to be out of touch, waiting to get off, and just lazy. What should
I do?
Thanks- Tired of quickies

Dear Tired of quickies-

Ask yourself a few questions-Has he the motivation to change and please you? If not- Are you serious with this partner? Do you want to explore multiple partners? If you have tried talking to him and explaining the situation, asking for what you want, and nothings changed then maybe you should explore other options! Women are usually good at being more intimate, passionate, and romantic. Have you tried that shoe on for size? I am not saying drop your man altogether, but if you feel like you're beating a dead horse or a limp

noodle as the case may be, move on. You have the right to have someone else if you can't find it at home. Maybe you could give him a taste of what you are looking for by surprising him first before you ditch. Surprise him with a romantic mood, candles, lotions, oils, toys, music, and tasty body products. Tie him to the bed post and take advantage of him, show him what you've got honey! Some guys just get bored with the relationship, or they forget that when they have sex with someone that there is someone else involved, in this case it is you. Tease him! If its just the orgasm he's looking for then tease the hell out of him, don't let him get off, keep switching things up a little. If he has to work for what he wants then a whole new world of possibilities could open up.

Get your groove on!